This is for everybody, whether you got somebody right now, or looking
for somebody, this page is your source to help you get what you want
out of your relationship, from the intimate side. I will break this down
into two segments. One for those WITH, and one for those WITHOUT.
For those of you WITH SOMEBODY
For those of you LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY
My next Love and Romance column will come from you, my readers.
Please share with me your thoughts on anything related to (Love, Sex,
Romance, or Relationships) and I will post them next month.
for somebody, this page is your source to help you get what you want
out of your relationship, from the intimate side. I will break this down
into two segments. One for those WITH, and one for those WITHOUT.
For those of you WITH SOMEBODY
- Say, "I Love You" to your partner at least four times per day. When
you wake, then twice at some points during the day. Then finally
when you reunite for bed. To enhance this first aspect of showing
affection with your partner, call and leave a message of love. - Eat dinner together as much as possible. This gives you and your
partner invaluable time to talk to each other. We get so consumed
in ourselves that we can very easily neglect the person whom we
love the most. This dinner time allows for some form of non-sexual
intimacy. - Give your partner an 8-second kiss everyday. You will be surprised
at how excited you get when doing it. Kissing, for most women
from my experience, is a HUGE turn-on. If you are not a good
kisser, then you are S-O-L (Shit outta Luck). - Quality time!!!!! Make time for each other, at a minimum of one
night per week. Spend an evening together. Whether it is a
blockbuster night, or a night on the town. Spend time together.
Just you and your partner. - Lastly, COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER!!!!! I cannot stress this
enough. Too many times we let little shit build up then it
snowballs into bigger shit.
For those of you LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY
- Get Busy!!!!! This is especially true for women. Find a hobby. If
you are a single mom, then get your child busy and you play
chauffeur and drive him/her around. You will be surprised at how
many men you will see at a "swimming class, basketball practice,
soccer game, or dance/acting classes." This is an excellent
opportunity for you to meet someone "off the cuff." - Stop being so dayum choosey. Especially you over 30 folks. Too
many people, men and women, are searching for somebody that is
"fine as hell." We must learn to appreciate a person for their
conversation, intellect, and sense of humor. As we grow older, it is
going to be those three qualities that we most appreciate in our
partner. Give somebody at chance with you. - Smile and compliment people whom you come in contact with.
(For men: If you see a sista in a nice outfit, or one who just got her
hair done, tell her how good she looks.) This goes a LONG WAY
with the sistas. - Attend a larger church. The congregation at Salem Church is over
30,000 strong. Hmmmm...lets do the math, lets say that 16,000 of
those people are married and another 4,000 are in committed
relationships. That still leaves 10,000 single people, which
probably breaks down to 3,000 men and 7,000 women since
women are more predominant in the church. If you don't believe
me, then go to Salem, Trinity, or Antioch on the southside for a
Sunday Service.
My next Love and Romance column will come from you, my readers.
Please share with me your thoughts on anything related to (Love, Sex,
Romance, or Relationships) and I will post them next month.
Love, Sex, Relationships, and Romance
