Love and Romance
Every day hundreds of relationships lose their fire. Many times that fire dies
out because of a basic lack of romance. We get so caught up in our daily lives
with work, children, friends, and family, that we forget to show the love and
affection that a healthy relationship needs to survive.
But fear not, help is on the way. Below I have come up with some ideas to assist
you in sustaining or developing a long lasting romantic relationship.
1. Ladies, instead of sleeping in your basic t-shirt and panties, night gown, or
pajamas; put on a nice teddy or some erotic lingerie. Take a shower before bed,
and put on some perfume. Make your man feel as if he is going to lie down with
a queen. Cuddle up next to your man, and rub his chest. These oh so subtle
signs will allow him to feel more masculine, if possible, go to sleep in his arms.
2. Fellas, after a long day at work, your lady comes home mentally drained.
Run some bath water for her. Get a couple of scented candles and light them,
and get some bath salts of the same or similar scent, and pour them into the tub.
Finally, break out the CD player and put in a copy of DJ Chuck Dog's Moment
of Love CD. This is very relaxing, and something your woman will remember.
Unless you have a jacuzzi that big enough for two, don't get in with her, simply
pour two glasses of wine, and sit on a small stool or chair outside the tub, and
talk to your woman. Caress her back, breast, and neck. Trust me fellas, your
woman will enjoy this.
3. Fellas, compliment your woman. Tell her DAILY how fine she is, how nice
her hair looks, or how sexy the outfit looks on her. Men you will find that it is
NOT the big things that a woman is looking for, but those little things that we
so often overlook that makes a woman feel special.
4. Fellas, most grocery stores now sell a dozen roses in red or white for under
$10. If your woman goes to work before you do in the morning, purchase them
the night before and set them in a vase in the bathroom, along with a
handwritten note, not a card, but a note which is much more personal. When she
awakes in the morning to get ready for work, she will see them and feel very
special. If she works after you, then set this up in the morning. Either way,
this is an inexpensive way to show your woman some affection. And you know as
well as I that if you ain't lovin' your woman, then another man will.
5. Ladies let a man be a man. Many times I see women and wives who "henpeck"
their men. Let him lead and make some of the decisions. If you are a clever
sista, then you know how to do this, while still holding the "power" in your
relationship, but just allowing your man to "think" the power is in his hands.
(This may be above some heads.)
6. Fellas, fourplay is your ally. This doesn't just mean oral sex. A woman's
body has many erotic zones. It is up to you to find them. (ears, earlobes, neck,
thighs, feet, shoulders,) Spend some time in bed with your woman, explore her
body, there is much more to her than the lumps on her chest and the hole
between her legs.
7. Fellas, if you are having a little trouble gettin it up, then here is a recipe
for some bootleg viagra, I got this straight from a female bartender in Jamaica.
Get you a can of Red Bull, and mix it with a bottle of Guiness Stout Dark Beer.
Drink it all. You will be harder than Chinese arithmetic.
8. Men and Women, watch an erotic movie together. I don't mean a porno flick,
but a good erotic movie. Pandora's Box (Trois 2) comes to mind. Not only is
this movie good, but its erotic nature will have you, at the very least, thinking
about sex. (Click the movie title for more information about it)
Finally, if you have any comments or suggestions to assist in developing or
sustaining a healthy romantic relationship, please forward them to me and I will
print them in my December version of Love and Romance. Ladies, to find out
your sex type, or "What turns you on, click here
out because of a basic lack of romance. We get so caught up in our daily lives
with work, children, friends, and family, that we forget to show the love and
affection that a healthy relationship needs to survive.
But fear not, help is on the way. Below I have come up with some ideas to assist
you in sustaining or developing a long lasting romantic relationship.
1. Ladies, instead of sleeping in your basic t-shirt and panties, night gown, or
pajamas; put on a nice teddy or some erotic lingerie. Take a shower before bed,
and put on some perfume. Make your man feel as if he is going to lie down with
a queen. Cuddle up next to your man, and rub his chest. These oh so subtle
signs will allow him to feel more masculine, if possible, go to sleep in his arms.
2. Fellas, after a long day at work, your lady comes home mentally drained.
Run some bath water for her. Get a couple of scented candles and light them,
and get some bath salts of the same or similar scent, and pour them into the tub.
Finally, break out the CD player and put in a copy of DJ Chuck Dog's Moment
of Love CD. This is very relaxing, and something your woman will remember.
Unless you have a jacuzzi that big enough for two, don't get in with her, simply
pour two glasses of wine, and sit on a small stool or chair outside the tub, and
talk to your woman. Caress her back, breast, and neck. Trust me fellas, your
woman will enjoy this.
3. Fellas, compliment your woman. Tell her DAILY how fine she is, how nice
her hair looks, or how sexy the outfit looks on her. Men you will find that it is
NOT the big things that a woman is looking for, but those little things that we
so often overlook that makes a woman feel special.
4. Fellas, most grocery stores now sell a dozen roses in red or white for under
$10. If your woman goes to work before you do in the morning, purchase them
the night before and set them in a vase in the bathroom, along with a
handwritten note, not a card, but a note which is much more personal. When she
awakes in the morning to get ready for work, she will see them and feel very
special. If she works after you, then set this up in the morning. Either way,
this is an inexpensive way to show your woman some affection. And you know as
well as I that if you ain't lovin' your woman, then another man will.
5. Ladies let a man be a man. Many times I see women and wives who "henpeck"
their men. Let him lead and make some of the decisions. If you are a clever
sista, then you know how to do this, while still holding the "power" in your
relationship, but just allowing your man to "think" the power is in his hands.
(This may be above some heads.)
6. Fellas, fourplay is your ally. This doesn't just mean oral sex. A woman's
body has many erotic zones. It is up to you to find them. (ears, earlobes, neck,
thighs, feet, shoulders,) Spend some time in bed with your woman, explore her
body, there is much more to her than the lumps on her chest and the hole
between her legs.
7. Fellas, if you are having a little trouble gettin it up, then here is a recipe
for some bootleg viagra, I got this straight from a female bartender in Jamaica.
Get you a can of Red Bull, and mix it with a bottle of Guiness Stout Dark Beer.
Drink it all. You will be harder than Chinese arithmetic.
8. Men and Women, watch an erotic movie together. I don't mean a porno flick,
but a good erotic movie. Pandora's Box (Trois 2) comes to mind. Not only is
this movie good, but its erotic nature will have you, at the very least, thinking
about sex. (Click the movie title for more information about it)
Finally, if you have any comments or suggestions to assist in developing or
sustaining a healthy romantic relationship, please forward them to me and I will
print them in my December version of Love and Romance. Ladies, to find out
your sex type, or "What turns you on, click here