Random Romantic Thought
When around "the fellas", talk always seems to gravitate around the subject of Women. How controlling
they are, some of the things they do to "irritate their man, or just about anything that involves male and
female relationships. It really amazes me how much this particular subject comes up.
There are basically three major issues that women of today must deal with in order to develop a strong,
successful, and satisfying relationship.
1. Women, in order to get and keep a man must become more submissive, remember that a man is the
head of a household. It is NOT 50-50. I don't care if she makes more money than him, or has better credit.
This is a HUGE problem with women today!!! Ephesians 5:22 says, "Wives sumit to your husbands...For
the husband is the Head of the wife...Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to
their husbands in everything." This biblical rule, in my opinion, also transcends to unmarried couples.
Many of the "fellas" always state that, "Women change when they become married." I always tell them that
that is not true. Women don't change. She has been giving you signs of her true personality from day one.
Men have just been too dayum stupid to realize it. So when the wedding rings are slipped on and the vows
are given men get "buyer's remorse" and start thinking and finding fault in their woman.
In short, my message to women, is this...Women, stop being so dayum domineering. Pleasing your man in
and out of the bedroom should be your first priority. Remember ladies, you attract more flies with honey
than with vinegar!
(2) Most men, please take note that I did say most, have a disease which I have named 'Better Car-itis'.
Let me explain...the major problem that a man has is that he is never satisfied. Here's an analogy: A man
has a new car. He puts a nice set of rims and tires on it, adds a knockout sound system, keeps the oil
changed, and obviously keeps it clean. But as time wheres on he sees a car that looks a little sharper than
his, maybe the rims are shinier, or the sounds louder. For some reason, however, the man is wanting to
see what it feels like to drive that car. So he works feverishly in an attempt to "drive" that car. Mind you,
there may be nothing seriously wrong with his car, maybe the tires might be a little worn or the paint has a
few chips. Nothing that he cannot really deal with. He just has "Better Caritis."
This is what happens with women. It might not be shit wrong with his woman, yeah she might create a little
stress every now and then, but he wasn't complaining when he "drove her off the showroom floor", but now
that he has made some payments a brotha is wanting an upgrade. Problem is, with sooooooooooooo
many available sistas out there more and more brothas are starting to get Better Car-itis. My advice to
the fellas...be satisfied with what ya got. Yeah you are gonna see something that looks a little betta than
yours. The trick, keep your happy and you'll be as well.
(3), Women tend to let little shit build up, then when something big happens, a woman will be mad at
something her man did 6 months ago. And bring it up during a discussion, a brotha be like "Dayum, I don't
even remember that shit!" Instead of dealing with each minor issue as it arises, women will let it build into
a major problem. Communication is the key to any type of relationship that you will ever have. Whether
you are looking for a boyfriend, husband, or fuck-buddy, be truthful and communicate your desires up front,
and things will work better in the long run...
they are, some of the things they do to "irritate their man, or just about anything that involves male and
female relationships. It really amazes me how much this particular subject comes up.
There are basically three major issues that women of today must deal with in order to develop a strong,
successful, and satisfying relationship.
1. Women, in order to get and keep a man must become more submissive, remember that a man is the
head of a household. It is NOT 50-50. I don't care if she makes more money than him, or has better credit.
This is a HUGE problem with women today!!! Ephesians 5:22 says, "Wives sumit to your husbands...For
the husband is the Head of the wife...Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to
their husbands in everything." This biblical rule, in my opinion, also transcends to unmarried couples.
Many of the "fellas" always state that, "Women change when they become married." I always tell them that
that is not true. Women don't change. She has been giving you signs of her true personality from day one.
Men have just been too dayum stupid to realize it. So when the wedding rings are slipped on and the vows
are given men get "buyer's remorse" and start thinking and finding fault in their woman.
In short, my message to women, is this...Women, stop being so dayum domineering. Pleasing your man in
and out of the bedroom should be your first priority. Remember ladies, you attract more flies with honey
than with vinegar!
(2) Most men, please take note that I did say most, have a disease which I have named 'Better Car-itis'.
Let me explain...the major problem that a man has is that he is never satisfied. Here's an analogy: A man
has a new car. He puts a nice set of rims and tires on it, adds a knockout sound system, keeps the oil
changed, and obviously keeps it clean. But as time wheres on he sees a car that looks a little sharper than
his, maybe the rims are shinier, or the sounds louder. For some reason, however, the man is wanting to
see what it feels like to drive that car. So he works feverishly in an attempt to "drive" that car. Mind you,
there may be nothing seriously wrong with his car, maybe the tires might be a little worn or the paint has a
few chips. Nothing that he cannot really deal with. He just has "Better Caritis."
This is what happens with women. It might not be shit wrong with his woman, yeah she might create a little
stress every now and then, but he wasn't complaining when he "drove her off the showroom floor", but now
that he has made some payments a brotha is wanting an upgrade. Problem is, with sooooooooooooo
many available sistas out there more and more brothas are starting to get Better Car-itis. My advice to
the fellas...be satisfied with what ya got. Yeah you are gonna see something that looks a little betta than
yours. The trick, keep your happy and you'll be as well.
(3), Women tend to let little shit build up, then when something big happens, a woman will be mad at
something her man did 6 months ago. And bring it up during a discussion, a brotha be like "Dayum, I don't
even remember that shit!" Instead of dealing with each minor issue as it arises, women will let it build into
a major problem. Communication is the key to any type of relationship that you will ever have. Whether
you are looking for a boyfriend, husband, or fuck-buddy, be truthful and communicate your desires up front,
and things will work better in the long run...